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About Me

Carlen Costa is,

The Everyday Goddess™, a Clinical Sexologist, Psychotherapist & best-selling Author. She is the founder of The Everyday Goddess™ lifestyle brand, and is Canada's leading presenting cannabis Advocate on the intersection of cannabis for sex and intimacy health.

Carlen teaches people how to love, better.

She empowers women to own their orgasm and embody their desire for transformative personal power activation. Carlen’s real talk,

sans-bs approach, using the principles of sacred science, encourages you to affirm, work, heal and grow in all areas of your life. Through a holistic approach in her private Psychotherapy practice, and leading the stage as a presenting speaker nation-wide, she has been featured in FASHION, Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, CBC, CTV, Refinery29,, the Wanderlust Festival and The Taboo Show. She is also the 3X Amazon best-selling Author of, "Love: The Women's Guide to Not Fucking Settling", available now.

You can also join Carlen in her new life design membership community for women, The Sex for Breakfast Club and, by shopping with her at The Everyday Goddess™ lifestyle brand, available exclusively online. A portion of every sale is contributed to her founded charity, The Goddess Foundation, that seeks to fund initiatives by women, for women, across Canada. 

Unapologetically Passionate.

Carlen has learned that the key to being present for the life you want to live and, the person you want to become, comes down to the relationship you have with yourself. It's about choosing your change, and it starts with you.


It's time to say YES to the shift your life deserves. It’s time for you to own that the key to a greater sense of self-worth, a healthy body image and a more imaginative sex life begins with you saying YES to owning your own life, love and pleasure, in all of the delicious ways. 

Carlen supports you to shift your experience of the living process and live an unapologetically passionate life. 

Carlen Costa
The Best of Sex, Love, Relationships & Healthy Lifestyles. 

Carlen, primarily works in the field of sexology and addresses concerns for women, men and spectrum based gender identities in multiple ways, via the modality of talk therapy, her published written work and via live video, tv, podcasts and various media appearances.

She is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, from The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality with an MA in Public Health. She is a registered Psychotherapist with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers, and is a graduate from both Western University and Fanshawe College. Carlen is also a registered Clinical Sexologist with the American College of Sexologists. 


Her current areas of interest are female sexuality, female intimacy and lifestyle, relational body image, as well as anxiety and trauma informed treatment, click her service page to see all areas of which she works.


Carlen's goal is to inspire you to nurture powerful attitudes to create healthy, happy & consensual relationships and values in not only your intimate lifestyle, but in your everyday life. It's about harnessing that big clit energy and loving the fuck out of who you are, every single day. We must do better and learn how to communicate, behave, love and translate all aspects of your energy into satisfying balance in your life, by bringing more pleasure into your life — because that’s what you deserve.

You, my Goddess, are worthy. Own it. 

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