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eliminate People pleasing & Set HEALTHY boundaries.

stop f*cking settling for relationshit tactics with everybody.


Are you ready for your emotional makeover?

Let's grow.

You keep saying you want to be in 'positive and healthy relationships', but you are in a draining relationship with yourself.


You negative self-talk (a lot), you meet people who keep ghosting you and, you say “sorry” to other people wayyyy too often. If you’ve read the books, spent money on 'gurus' who claim to know the answers, went to a therapy session that one time and still feel lonely - it must be time to upgrade your EQ and activate your personal power, like this Goddess.

Carlen Costa® has curated a life design community of radical love for

the embodiment of your personal power to elevate your pleasure and mental wealth.

Learn more about our emotional makeover therapy programs, shop The Everyday Goddess® or book a call below to find out if I'm the right therapist vibe for you.

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Activate your pleasure. Ignite your power. Elevate your peace. Let's learn to love better.

I'm Carlen Costa DHS, MPH, RP, ACS, PAP a Clinical Sexologist, OCSWSSW Psychotherapist, Cannabis Integration Coach, TheraPsil® Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapist, orgasm activist & author of the Amazon #1 best-seller  "Love: The Women's Guide to Not Fucking Settling" and, I help women and men love themselves and others better through unmasking radical self-acceptance. We work with emotional intelligence skill building to elevate your mental health, personal power, and have more meaningful, intimate relationships with others.

I've been in private practice as a psychotherapist for 10+ years, supporting all humans in their healing, one heart at a time. In this space, you can sign-up for one of my therapy programs, watch an episode of my podcasts or head over to my life design community aka The Everyday Goddess™ shop and elevate your daily love with spicy home goods.

I am a tough love healer, who integrates both evidence-based, emotional intelligence skill-building and energy transmutation into her work. You came here, because you need to know that it can be better. 

You know that you deserve to love bigger and be loved better.

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I'm going to call out the dumb shit that you've been putting up with for too long,

& teach you how to set healthy boundaries

I'm going to build up your emotional intelligence.

i'm going to ignite your personal power.

I'm going to teach you how to activate from within.

because when you love yourself, you love others better. 


the confidence that you desire,

is the final destination of this journey - through the pillars of power, pleasure & peace. 

I know that you want to feel confident about the human that you are, about the sex that you want and about the relationships that you are in. 

I can help you become the confident person that you deserve to be.

Because the relationship with yourself is the remedy to blast through blocks associated with:

-  mental health  

- physical & intimate health

- relationship stagnation

- personal power activation

And, we need learn how to develop that relationship to elevate and reclaim our personal power, so that we can show up for other relationships better.

Welcome, to the beginning of your greatest love story.

love you. so hard.

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