About Me

I'm Carlen Costa DHS, RP, ACS is,

a Clinical Sexologist & OCSWSSW registered Psychotherapist. As the best-selling Author of “Love: The Women’s Guide to Not Fucking Settling”, Cannabis Advocate and CEO of The Everyday Goddess™ life design community, I teach women and men how to love, with confidence, through radical self-love and sacred science therapies. 


The Everyday Goddess™ is a brand for radical love. 

A portion of the proceeds of every sale is donated directly to Carlen’s founded charity, The Goddess Foundation. Her foundation seeks to raise money in order to fund programs and services by womxn, for womxn, across Canada. 

Carlen teaches you how to love, better.

She empowers women to own their orgasm and embody their desire for transformative personal power activation. Carlen’s real talk, 

sans-bs approach, using the principles of sacred science, encourages you to affirm, work, heal and grow in all areas of your life. Through a holistic approach in her private Psychotherapy practice, and leading the stage as a presenting speaker nation-wide, she has been featured in FASHION, Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, CBC, CTV, Refinery29, Vice.com, the Wanderlust Festival and The Taboo Show.


You can work directly with Carlen and her community of Love Leaders through enrolment in one of The Everyday Goddess™’ integrated transformational therapy programs, curated as the diamond standard to holistic healing. The ITT approach, developed by Carlen, combines the best of modern and traditional healing modalities to provide the opportunity of transformation, through safe and intensive practices and lifestyle shifts. 

Join the community by enrolment in:  The Goddess Program - 8 weeks to loving like a Goddess, therapy program; The Sex for Breakfast Club - a safe space for real talk, radical self-love through the lens of intersectional power and pleasure for womxn, that exalts you daily to live like a Goddess; and, through booking a 1:1 talk therapy, private practice session, directly with Carlen, (not gender specific).

*stay tuned for men's specific services to launch in 2020.

Carlen Costa
The best of sex, love, relationships & healthy lifestyles. 

Carlen, primarily works in the field of sexology and addresses concerns for womxn, men and spectrum based gender identities in multiple ways, via the modality of talk therapy, her published written work and via live video, tv, podcasts and various media appearances.

She is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, from The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality with an MA in Public Health. She is a registered Psychotherapist with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers, and is a graduate from Western University and Fanshawe College. Carlen is also a registered Clinical Sexologist with the American College of Sexologists. 


Her current areas of interest are female sexuality, female intimacy and lifestyle, relational body image, as well as anxiety and trauma informed treatment. Click her service page to see all areas of which she works.


Carlen's goal is to inspire you to nurture powerful attitudes to create healthy, happy & consensual relationships and values in not only your intimate lifestyle, but in your everyday life. It's about harnessing that big clit energy and loving the fuck out of who you are, every single day. We must do better and learn how to communicate, behave, love and translate all aspects of your energy into satisfying balance in your life, by bringing more pleasure into your life — because that’s what you deserve.

You, my Goddess, are worthy. Own it.