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About Me

OMGoddess hi!

I'm Carlen Costa a Clinical Sexologist & OCSWSSW Psychotherapist. As CEO of The Everyday Goddess™ life design community, best-selling Author of “Love: The Women’s Guide to Not Fucking Settling”, cannabis advocate, international speaker and philanthropist, I teach women and men how to activate their self-love, so they can better love one another through radical self-love and sacred science talk therapy modalities and lifestyle elevation. 


The Everyday Goddess™ is a brand for radical big love. 

A portion of the proceeds of every sale is donated directly to Carlen’s founded charity, The Goddess Foundation. Her foundation seeks to raise money in order to fund programs and services by womxn, for womxn across Canada. 

Carlen teaches you how to love, better.

She empowers women to own their orgasm and embody their desire for transformative personal power activation. Carlen’s real talk, 

sans-BS approach encourages you to affirm, work, heal and grow in all areas of your life. Through a holistic approach in her private Psychotherapy practice, and leading the stage as a presenting international speaker, she has been featured in FASHION, Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, CBC, CTV, Refinery29,, the Wanderlust Festival and The Taboo Show.


You can work directly with Carlen and her community of Love Leaders through enrolment in one of The Everyday Goddess' transformational psychotherapy programs curated as a diamond standard to holistic healing. Her radical approach combines the best of evidence-based and nontraditional healing modalities to provide the opportunity of transmutation, through safe and intensive talk therapy practices and lifestyle shifts. 


Ignite BIG LOVE in your life with enrolment in:  The Goddess Program - 8 weeks to loving yourself like a Goddess emotional makeover therapy program or  The Bravehearts Program 8 weeks for men who want to be better at loving; or through booking a 1 on 1 talk therapy session directly with Carlen, (not gender specific).

The Everyday Goddess is a safe space for real talk, radical self-love through the lens of intersectional power and big juicy pleasure that exalts you daily to live like a Goddess.

Carlen Costa
The best of sex, love, relationships & healthy lifestyles. 

Carlen, primarily works in the field of sexology and addresses concerns for womxn, men and spectrum based gender identities via the modality of talk therapy, her published written work and via live video, tv, podcasts and various media appearances.

She is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, from The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality with a Masters in Public Health. She is a registered Psychotherapist with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers, and is a graduate from Western University and Fanshawe College. Carlen is also a registered Clinical Sexologist with the American College of Sexologists. 


Her current areas of interest are female sexuality, female intimacy and lifestyle, relational body image, as well as anxiety and trauma informed treatment. Click her service page to see all areas of which she works.


Carlen's goal is to inspire you to nurture powerful attitudes and lifestyle to create healthy, happy & consensual relationships and values in not only your intimate lifestyle, but in your everyday life. It's about harnessing that big clit energy and loving the fuck out of who you are, every single day. We must do better and learn how to communicate, behave, love and translate all aspects of your energy into satisfying balance in your life, by bringing more pleasure into your life — because that’s what you deserve.

You, my Goddess are worthy. Own it. 

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